Thursday, April 28, 2011

When I get ready to talk to people, I spend two thirds of the time thinking what they want to hear and one third thinking about what I want to say.

Today I thought about thoughts that make me think in sleepless nights :D:D (this sentence sounds so cool, LOL)
People are so different all around me. Some are nice, some not that nice, some are funny, some are sad...all kinds of people I meet everyday. But if there's one thing everyone has in-common its  that we all want others to like us.  I'm not gonna lie - I want it too. I like when others like me. It's a good feeling. But the bad side of this all is that sometimes we forget that to get something, you have to give.

People will always treat you the same way you treat them. That's just how it is. We all know it, but not all of us remember it. Til this day, I used to whine all the time about how I don't have any real friends, how my life is pathetic, how nobody likes me... and people around me do it too. And it's annoying. Even when I do it. Cause it sounds so weak. We CAN'T just expect others to come to us and say OH, YOU ARE SO NICE, SO COOL... we have to earn others respect, niceness and likeliness. And if others don't like you, don't judge them or say that they don't understand you or that they're not nice. Instead try to think WHY others don't like you and have you done anything for them to like you.

Until this day I was just like that. But no more. So today is my big day of changes. And I like the sound of that.

So, take care everyone, and yaay! for happy cool people, haha :D



-B- 

6 comments:

  1. I once read that to gain the respect of others one has to respect themselves.
    I have tried to live by these words.

    Enjoyed reading your post as always.
    Yvonne.

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  2. You are sooo awesome! Yahoo for happy cool people ;)

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  3. Thank you for your comment, pleased you enjoyed my poems in the A to Z Challenge.

    Yvonne.

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  4. It's always good to be true to oneself. aka Shakespeare. ;-) Tres cool, a change is always a good thing.

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  5. thats a true post.how many different roles should we play each day!
    and i liked the first sentence!so cool:)

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  6. THANKYOU FOR FOLLOWING!:)<3

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