Have you ever noticed how hard it is for some people to say those 3 magical words„I am sorry”? It’s like they think they’ll get shot if they say them, so they simply don’t.
I can say for myself – it is kinda hard to say I’M SORRY. But I’ve said it. And I’ve survived. I think it tells about person so much.Only a strong person can admit its mistakes, regrets and simply admit being wrong and feeling sorry for what have been said or done.
But it takes a weak person, to not say any word and just hope that everything will fall in its place on its own. And when I think about it, I realize I’m surrounded by that kind of people.
Not only my friends but also my family have some issues with those 3 words. So many fights would have been resolved much easily if people admitted they’re wrong and sorry. But everyone is so stubborn. They all think they’re not the guilty ones and no one ever say they’re sorry. They just wait til everything is forgotten and forgiven, just like that…
But let me tell you, some fights don’t just go away like that. For me , it’s all it takes. Just say I’M SORRY, mean it, and I’ll forgive you no matter what you’ve done. Cause I know how hard it is to say it. But if some people can’t even do that, then they’re not worthy of my forgiveness.
I know it’s hard to admit you’re wrong, but there will not always be people, who simply forgives. Those people who can’t say they’re sorry, they just think they’re better than everybody else or that they’re never wrong, so why should they apologize. They like when other people reach to them, or rush after them and make things right. But there will come a day, when those nice people will have had enough. And this is one of the main reasons why so many friendships are ruined.
And I can say that I’VE HAD ENOUGH. And this goes straight to people I’m arguing now, or will argue in the future… I will no longer treat you the same, if you can’t simply apologize.
Everyone make mistakes, but it takes good person to admit them and try to fix them.