Sunday, July 10, 2011

Rainbows apologize for angry skies.

Have you ever noticed how hard it is for some people to say those 3 magical words„I am sorry”? It’s like they think they’ll get shot if they say them, so they simply don’t.

I can say for myself – it is kinda hard to say I’M SORRY. But I’ve said it. And I’ve survived. I think it tells about person so much.Only a strong person can admit its mistakes, regrets and simply admit being wrong and feeling sorry for what have been said or done. 

But it takes a weak person, to not say any word and just hope that everything will fall in its place on its own.  And when I think about it, I realize I’m surrounded by that kind of people.
Not only my friends but also my family have some issues with those 3 words. So many fights would have been resolved much easily if people admitted they’re wrong and sorry. But everyone is so stubborn. They all think they’re not the guilty ones and no one ever say they’re sorry. They just wait til everything is forgotten and forgiven, just like that…

But let me tell you, some fights don’t just go away like that. For me , it’s all it takes. Just say I’M SORRY, mean it, and I’ll forgive you no matter what you’ve done. Cause I know how hard it is to say it. But if some people can’t even do that, then they’re not worthy of my forgiveness.

I know it’s hard to admit you’re wrong, but there will not always be people, who simply forgives. Those people who can’t say they’re sorry, they just think they’re better than everybody else or that they’re never wrong, so why should they apologize. They like when other people reach to them, or rush after them and make things right. But there will come a day, when those nice people will have had enough. And this is one of the main reasons why so many friendships are ruined.

And I can say that I’VE HAD ENOUGH. And this goes straight to people I’m arguing now, or will argue in the future… I will no longer treat you the same, if you can’t simply apologize.

Everyone make mistakes, but it takes good person to admit them and try to fix them.

-B-  
  

7 comments:

  1. I wish you would write this to my son, 4 months has gone by since he text to say I was no longer his mother nor his children were my grandchildren. I don't know what I have done wrong I would say sorry straight away, but according to my daughter he even tore the birthday cards I sent my grandson and grand daughter. If anyone needs to say sorry he does, it's only a little world but means so much to the wronged person.
    I enjoyed reading your post.
    Take care.
    Yvonne.

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  2. Honey that has been something I have never understood. So what? If you are wrong you are wrong. Just say it! I do. Maybe it's easier for me cause i have to say it constantly but hey I'm still alive and kicking! I know my beast are huge right? lol Drake is a favorite of mine. I love that big ox. Probably cause he seems to think he is my baby for some reason. Oh well.

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  3. What do you consider crazy? You run naked every year and I would never be brave enough to do that! I love you! Elisa does too. We think you are awesome! You can do anything you want to do. Don't turn into me kiddo!

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  4. That closing line is epic! Nicely put :) "Everyone make mistakes, but it takes a good person to admit them and try to fix them."

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  5. wow baiba!a beautiful post.u r absolutely right.when a person admits his mistakes he is not becoming small the owner of a true heart...
    have a good day
    love,
    haritha:)

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  6. lol aren't those pictures silly? We had a great time. You can come do crazy stuff anytime you want kiddo.

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  7. Where are you kiddo? lol you need to post again.

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